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Psychopath In Your Life
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Hi - a family member of mine was engaged to a man with a very controlling and manipulative mother. Very close to the wedding date, she saw that he could or would not stand up to his mother on her behalf and she broke off the engagement. It was very h
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Depression and healing
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Very gently, cwilliams -- I think most of us here would tell you, along with all the literature -- your Psychopath is not going to change. They can't. They are what they are, like sharks. All you can change is how you deal with the situation. And mos
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Psychopath In Your Life
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Cwilliams, wow, it must feel by now that we are all beating on you. (((Sending you hugs right now.))) And sending the message that we've been through it, and are farther down the road. We're just telling you what we've seen, in hopes that it will hel
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Depression and healing
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she's not god's child, she's god's mistake. unless this is another one of god's tests. to put these psychopaths in our paths and see where we land. they are the work of the devil. no doubt about it.
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Psychopath In Your Life
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cwilliams32, what a sad predicament you are in. isn't it interesting and disturbing to read the responses you've gotten. run run run... is all everyone can say. so heartbreaking. so now it's my turn to respond. 1) about your boyfriend being suc
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Psychopath In Your Life
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I'm really sorry for the situation you're in. More than a lot of other people out there, I think we understand how difficult and painful all of this is.
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Psychopath In Your Life
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I do agree with you all. I know that love doesnt conquer all. I guess I just am wishing for the best but know i cant have the best of both worlds. She is a huge manipulator, my bf sees right through it, but still cant say no. So thats where the probl
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Psychopath In Your Life
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I agree, F Wright, love doesn't conquer all, if it were me I would not let my heart rule and knowing from other members like yourself who took that path. The pain (and that is putting it mildly) is a sure thing if marrying into the family where a Psy
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Psychopath In Your Life
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This woman sounds much like ex my mother-in-law. It's true... if you marry the man his mother will be part of the deal. No matter how hard you work to make a family life with just the two of you, his mother will be behind the curtain, constantly man
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Psychopath In Your Life
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Hi Cwilliams, welcome to our community. You can click on any members name and their posts will show up so you can read their history. Di
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Psychopath In The Family
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I'm sorry for all the suffering that has brought you here. But glad you are able to find a way through though. 'You DO Need jesus because without him you will never find healing. I promise.' From what I've seen, everyone finds their own healing pat
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Psychopath In Your Life
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What are your in laws like? The same way? Psychopaths?
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Psychopath In Your Life
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No, I do understand where youre coming from, and that is why I came here because my gut and my heart are telling me different things. I have thought many times about if I can stay and if it is worth it. I guess I feel like it is because hes such a gr
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Psychopath In Your Life
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Hi, cwilliams, welcome. Some of what you describe sounds quite familiar; the giving of things, then taking them back, over and over; the illegal activities and laughing in scorn at the idea of being caught, etc. (My in-laws) I wouldn't dream of tel
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Psychopath In The Family
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hello, I read your posts and felt empathy for you. My boyfriends mother is a socipath and very very very emotionally unstable and all the above that you mentioned. Also, acts and talks as if she is the most religious woman around. It is difficult in
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Depression and healing
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I really appreciate this post because I have been dealing with the same emotions. Obviously not the same situation or circumstances but I have been learning lately that I have such a deep root of bitterness, and that the only way I can not let it con
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Psychopath In Your Life
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I have to start by saying my boyfriend is a wonderful man. Truly nothing like the rest of his family. I know when I talk about her, some people will respond with "you need to leave him" But let me reassure you that I have thought about my f
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Psychopath In Your Life
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Thank you for the replies Dianne and F Wright. I'm happy I can share these situations now. What intrigues me is that he hasn't tried to contact me for a year now, he's clearly over it, he has a new victim. It seems like he's doing this for his own
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Psychopath In Your Life
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There is an old saying. It ends with "You can't fool all of the people all of the time." Narcissicm is often a trait of psycopathy. Narcissists are very protective over their victims and will go to great lengths to keep them within the web
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Psychopath In The Family
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Dianne and starry, once again, thank you so much. Now that the alcohol has worn off, well ... we are feeling a bit beat up. But we are a lot clearer, if sadder, about what we need to do and not do. I am very grateful to everyone who is a bit furthe
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Psychopath In Your Life
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There were several redflags. But this flag was red, flashing and screaming WAKE UP. I had left work earlier and I thought to surprise him and have lunch together, so I drove to his work - he'd been working in a lawfirm as a lawer for 4 months. As
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Psychopath In The Family
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Great for you blueheron, glad you had the margarita stop, lol. If they get themselves in deep enough and it sounds like they are heading into even deeper hot water, my first hunch is before long the clamp will come down and that is great news if the
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Psychopath In The Family
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blueheron, I'm so impressed with how you're dealing with this. And how great that the attorney understood what was going on and gave you the advice he did. You've been in my thoughts the past couple of days.
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Psychopath In The Family
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Hello, Dianne, we just got home from the attorney (estate attorney). Well, granted, we stopped on the way home for a margarita and some guacamole because we were strung tighter than a cheap violin. We never drink, so one drink did a nice buzz job. O
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Psychopath In Your Life
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Hi Lanvin, please, you are far from being retarded, thankfully you got away from him. It is impossible to defend the indefensible when they spread lies about you, it happened to me and about ruined my life when everyone believed the horrific lies.
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