I thank everyone who responded to the question on merging. What I'm really wondering is, do men/women who are normal, or at least not p's, say the same kind of things. None of the other men (3) in my experience ever said anything like that, and I know they loved me, and they were honorable men. Kris touched upon this about boundaries, and I am just wondering if non-p's say these things also, OL says yes they do, but then we began a discussion of Charles... what does everyone else think. Do "normal" people in love say this type of thing, or is it another "red flag" to look out for?
Thanks in advance for tolerating my denseness in this area...
-Leti