Hi , i`m very new here today and not sure what i am doing. Thankyou for listening. I`m not very good with the computer and hope I shall be able to find you all again. thankyouI feel I am breaking down, i have dealt with this since a child and can`t take much more. However, reading what you shared about your mother is giving me the chills but also strength and i thankyou.. I have been tormented for years thinking i was alone by an entire family of psychotics and in-laws too and many others. I am the good person of the bunch. My dad was too but was killed in a car accident and i have been cast into abis ever since and even before, but he tried to protect me somewhat, he did what he could. I am barely hanging on and want it to stop. They are so sick and i can`t stand it for another minute. They have affected everything in my life even from a distance. They blame everything on me always have, everything they do they use me for a scape goat, tell everyone that it is me instead of them. Anyone that hasbeen important to me they have turned them against me.They are criminal and sickining, greedy and repulsive.. I am ashamed and alone because of them. It is too much to explain , honestly what i have been through it`s amazing i am still here. It has taken a toll on my health, in ever facet of my life they have ruined or close, for a long time I didn`t know what it was and blamed myself. I am the youngest child.They have been trying to dispose of me for years.I know some of you may relate to that, it is hard to write it down.I have just recently figured this out and it is devestaing to think they havegotten away with all of this for years.
i`ve always wanted aceptance from these people and have never recieved anything but abuse. I am trying to salvage a relationship with my mother but she will always go with the stories she has created and stick with the others she told me so. She was the master, now to old to do it full force anymore but is a parrot for my brothers lies and deceptions and she goes along with it knowingly, even though they have abused her all along as well. She isn`t strong enough, she`s dmamged, weak and to ill to admit she`s made mistakes, she is very vain and she would die of embarrasment and everyone would see really what the true picture is ofthe torment i endured and was used as a pon for years. It`s so sad and unbelievanble. They robbed me off a decent life and have blamed me for it as they sit on the hill i their big house abusing everyone they can, no one is safe with them around. They are the devil in sheeps clothing...
I must go for now, thankyou for letting me vent. I will try to figure the site out as best I can so I can return.I can`t believe there are other survivors like me......you are all angels.....and I thankyou. I`m not sure if I`m supposed to leave an e-mail address on here please let me know....I am holding a branch out for help.... and advise...I hid this for years with most people, didn`t know what was happening,out of embarrasment. Also when i did try to tell, everyone thought i was crazy it`s that bad.
Bye for now and try to take good care of number one that is what i am trying to do....it`s almost impossibl eexcept for the option of zero contact. I am now trying to protect the il abuser- my mom from herself and the other abusers, they just want what she has, as they are slowly killing her off and she has aloud it...and asked me to make sure nobody mistreats her....if this isn`t major denial i don`t know what it is and they are after me again as well......I have used most of my coping skills up at this time..
Take care god bless. Please excuse if i jumped all over, i didn`t proof read this.
foot note:When i was a child i used to run away from home alot, now I finally know why..I knew i was a good person and something was very wrong and it wasn`t me. Soo many emotions i feel.