... i was being suckered! it was a way to get his hooks into me and sap as much energy as he could and then at the end of it all one of his last comments was that i seemed so negative all the time...unbelievable!
Yes! You are so right. Totally unbelievable!
When in an email (written after Mr. Who had returned to his home in another country) I recounted, step by step, minute by minute and word by word what had led up to him trying to kill me as he said he was going to do, he denied each and every word.
I was not only completely wrong, I was also being unkind since I knew that he had just had heart surgery. How could I be so selfish and so unconcerned about his welfare?
He discounted everything I wrote. It had never happened…. Right!
I was slowly crawling out of the rabbit hole and he was not going to shove me back in.
These people will say and do anything to keep you caught and submissive. Why fall for it?
Dry your eyes, Inanna, and take a walk in the spring sunshine.