At least we are able to heal. The difference in that of how a psychopath works is that they do not stop to allow themselves healing, from whatever damage, be it nature/nuture, the patterns never cease. Change is purposed, over time & with intent. True healing is with cause/effect. I still have a long way to go in all of this. I do hear you that sometimes I feel almost like the wind is knocked out me. Their lives are lived on the surface/ego, feeding off of, society's bliss, day in & day out, while those who sleep arise to find the dark exposed by their electronic light of which fades over time. The days have slowed as the weight of the world grabs, I loose of it knowing that The Light of God Shines forth. But herethereto, some days seem grim that I allowed ex h near me.