WHY ARE CHILDREN DIFFERENT?
(lecture)
V.Antonov
Translated by T. Danilevich
"Two children have just come to my mind.
Once I was one of the guests among a lot of people including families with children - some kind of celebration was going to take place.
So I was sitting on the sofa. A baby climbed onto the sofa, crawled up to me and kissed me on the cheek sincerely, powerfully! He just poured his love over me! He kissed me with such a cordial love! If I was not familiar with his biography, I'd thought he had been a student of our school. For I never had seen such kids in our school.
And here is another child. I met him some times in the streets of Petersburg. He was about five, probably. His look was that of hatred - dreadful, piercing look of hatred towards everything and everyone. And this look and this devilish inner state were present constantly.
I met him first when he was tearing a hat of one of the boys of his age. Our glances met and he poured his hatred over me and ran away. Next time I saw him scratching someone's car with his knife. Our glances met again, there was the same hatred in his and he ran away again.
These are two extremes.
I heard such an idea that all children are little angels, we have to become like children and so on. So what kind of children?
When Jesus said: "Become like children" He meant a quite concrete, specific quality of the best of children "wide openness of the soul" (this is understandable from the context as well as from other - apocryphal-gospels). He calls up those listening to Him to "open up", to "undress" their souls before each other in emotional love. For he who is not able of doing this before his friend, he is not able of doing it before God.
Jesus spoke of kind, tender, sincere children. But there are also children that are spiteful, rude, extremely egoistic, lying, looking at other people as caged wild animals.
So why are children so different?"
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