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#16903 - 05/10/17 09:01 PM Podcast - Psychopath In Your Life now live***
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We will be posting the episodes on this thread. New episodes every Tuesday. Why a podcast? Well, for starters forum traffic has gone away on every platform that I can find including here.

It is time to take the show to a new level to reach a new audience. Most users these days are only using their mobile phones. Your questions and comments are welcome. You can use the contact form at the podcast site in order to be anonymous. I still value your privacy so you can use the message box located in the Contact section.
Psychopath In Your Life

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#16913 - 05/21/17 02:02 PM 003 – DIANNE SHARES FROM HER PERSONAL INTERVIEWS W [Re: Dianne E.]
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Psychopath in Your Life

-Podcast Show Notes-

Episode 003
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Summary:
In Episode 003, Dianne shares from her personal interviews with psychopaths the attributes they look for in their future victims. Dianne also explains just how manipulative psychopaths can be and how they use the strategy of gaslighting to maintain control over their victims. Tune in to find out why psychopaths play the victim and just how far they’ll push to stay in control.
Time Stamped Show Notes:
00:10 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life
00:19 – Last episode the kind of personalities psychopaths seek out
00:41 – One guy that Dianne interviewed look at how people’s eyes diverged, how confident they seemed, and even the look of the shoulders when it came to choosing their future victims
01:13 – Investigation Discovery Channel has stories about psychopaths
01:34 – Dateline Show also shares psychopaths’ stories
01:58 – Not all psychopaths are murderers
02:10 – Dealing with a psychopath is all about control
02:34 – Dateline Shows are usually about murder
03:24 – When you watch, read or listen to these stories—“Pay attention to when they describe the victim”
03:47 – The victim is the kind and caring person
04:04 – The victim’s kindness is usually what makes them a target
04:58 – Psychopaths victimize themselves in their own minds
05:13 – They flip and turn things around to make you believe they are the victim
05:51 – Dianne cites an example of how they play the victim
06:32 – Dianne was given a complete checklist of how psychopaths convince people they are the victim
07:08 – “The goal is to get you [the victim] to start to feel like you’re the crazy one and test your sense of normality”
07:21 – A description of the Gaslight Concept
07:51 – Dianne refers to the movie, Gas Light—where the term originated
07:57 – To gaslight is to alter the victim’s reality to fit into with what the psychopath wants it to be
08:59 – A psychopath manipulates to make themselves look like the victim
09:41 – Psychopaths test how far they can push their victims
11:06 – Some psychopaths are actually proud to be one
12:20 – Dianne looks forward to questions and comments
12:41 – Get in touch with Dianne on her website or by email
13:45 – Dianne closes the podcast
3 Key Points:
Psychopaths may have very specific qualities in mind when looking for potential targets.
Dealing with a psychopath is all about control.
Beware of “gaslighting”—psychopaths like playing the victim when, in fact, they victimize you!

Resources Mentioned:
Investigation Discovery Channel & Dateline Show– TV shows where stories and documentaries are about crimes that lead to psychopaths
Gaslighting – the tactic psychopaths use to alter your reality

Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews by Dianne Emerson
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Credits

– Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives

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#16914 - 05/21/17 02:04 PM 004 – PERSONAL INTERVIEWS – CONTINUED [Re: Dianne E.]
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Episode 004
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Summary:
In Episode 004, Dianne reminds us that each psychopath is unique and assuming that there is one way to identify all psychopaths is not only misguided, but impossible. In the same line of thinking, one can never be too sure what psychopaths are thinking. Listen as Dianne shares the behaviors and actions of the psychopaths she has interviewed; why they try to flip your charges and accusations against you how the biggest mistake you can make, as a victim, is to tell them you already “know”.
Time Stamped Show Notes:
00:13 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life
00:18 – Dianne is the author of the book, Psychopaths in Our Lives
00:26 – Dianne received a couple of interesting letters
00:43 – You cannot simply list down symptoms of psychopaths – it’s all about one’s observations
01:06 – Dianne talks about Ann Rule’s book on Ted Bundy
01:28 – “Ted has been described as the perfect son, the perfect student, the Boy Scout grown to adulthood, a genius, as handsome as a movie idol, a bright light in the future of the Republican Party, a sensitive psychiatric social worker, a budding lawyer, a trusted friend, a young man for whom the future could surely hold only success. He is all of these things, and none of them.”
02:15 – What is not addressed is the life of a psychopath and how to break up with them
02:46 – One psychopath in Dianne’s book, Fred, had a relationship that broke in a way that he didn’t want, so he took his revenge
03:23 – Be really clear on who you’re dealing with
03:44 – “They are NOT all the same”
04:12 – Not knowing who you’re dealing with can mean very serious consequences
04:25 – The better psychopaths are ones that are more sophisticated
04:48 – Do they have a conscience?
05:24 – Old criminal checklists for psychopaths do not apply all the time
05:54 – Be calculated in assessing who they are
06:02 – Every victim suffers from PTSD
06:34 – The problem is you may be seeing different things about a person than what others are seeing
06:57 – The worst thing you can do is to confide in people about a psychopath issue
07:13 – Psychopaths will do everything to flip the charges on you
07:48 – Everybody tries to trick the last person
08:50 – “I felt like I was going crazy” – It’s part of a psychopath’s plan
09:42 – When you start to question a psychopath, they start to push you to the edge, mentally
10:51 – Pay attention to the dynamics
11:08 – The last thing you ever want to tell a psychopath is that you “know”
11:53 – Dianne shares an ex hit-man’s story
13:32 – Get in touch with Dianne on her website or by email
14:05 – Dianne values your privacy and has no intention to build a list
14:23 – Comment from Bill, “I am the person you need me to be in order to trust, confide in, support, and promote, is the person I will become. Being free of unpredictable emotional reactions and guilt, I am free to be whatever, whenever, and then change them when necessary…”
15:00 – Subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, and Youtube
3 Key Points:
Not all psychopaths have the same characteristics – one size does not fit all so always be on guard.
Never assume you know what a psychopath is thinking or tell them that you “know” about who they are.
When you start to feel like YOU are the one going crazy; remember, that is part of the psychopath’s plan.Resources Mentioned:

Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews by Dianne Emerson
Amazon
iBooks

Ann Rule’s book regarding Ted Bundy

Credits

– Podcast Production and Editing Service rendered by Daniel Roth
– Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives

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#16915 - 05/21/17 02:04 PM Re: Podcast - Psychopath In Your Life now live*** [Re: Dianne E.]
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Psychopath in Your Life

-Podcast Show Notes-

Episode 005
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Summary:
One can form and build their conscience at the age of 3-5 years old and a lack of a conscience is one of the key characteristics of a psychopath. Having no conscience—meaning a lack of regard to right or wrong or the feelings of others—can be a direct result of being raised in a home that did not exemplify love and/or compassion. In Episode 005, Dianne introduces the medical definitions and description for psychopaths and the disorders they tend to fall into to help us gain a better understanding of the condition. She also responds to listeners’ comments, expressing her desire to help others.

Time Stamped Show Notes:

00:06 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life
00:47 – There are different ways to diagnose conditions and this can present a problem
01:25 – DSM is the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders
02:00 – Psychopaths fall into the personality disorder
02:27 – Conduct disorder is the initial diagnosis for children

03:15 – RAD means Reactive Attachment Disorder

03:48 – Children with RAD may develop stable relationships with caregivers and others

03:54 – Treatments include positive interaction, a stable & nurturing environment, psychological counseling, and parent/caregiver counseling

04:19 – Caregivers tend to think parents did something wrong to the kid, instead of considering pre-psychopathic behavior

04:50 – Most children are naturally resilient

05:35 – The main criteria for psychopaths is they don’t have a conscience

06:00 – The American Psychiatric Association and the DSM prefer to use the term ASPD

06:31 – ASPD (antisocial personality disorder) is a condition where a person shows no regard for right or wrong and ignores the rights and feelings of others

07:19 – Check further information on ASPD in Dr. Hare’s website

07:49 – Your conscience forms between the age between 3-5 years old

07:54 – How a psychopath acts out depends on the kind of supervision they get

08:18 – The destruction rate of a well-socialized psychopath is greater than any serial killer

09:08 – Please send us your questions if you have any

09:31 – “We all can improve”

09:45 – Dianne’s personality can be mistaken by people

10:08 – One comment said, Dianne was chumming around the psychopaths she interviews

10:41 – If Dianne reacted in any way, it would steer the direction of the conversation away from the truth

11:18 – Another comment was that she gave the psychopaths a platform where they are the victims

12:04 – A great psychopath plays the victim while they victimize others

12:31 – “We need to explore this subject”

13:18 – Dianne won’t move into “high” mode

13:35 – Dianne shares an example to explain

14:56 – Psychopaths know how to draw you back in

15:46 – Being drawn back in is very common

16:06 – Get in touch with Dianne on her website – we’ll keep your privacy

17:46 – Shows will be uploaded on Tuesdays on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, YouTube, and our website.

18:12 – Dianne invites and desires for you to know her more because she cares

18:21 – Many years ago, Dianne lost everything to a culprit psychopath

18:49 – Dianne can relate to what you’re going through

19:01 – Dianne closes the podcast

3 Key Points:

Psychopaths fall into the category of personality disorders.

Psychopaths have traits that can be exhibited as a child; having a stable and nurturing environment and counseling for both child and caregiver are great ways to make a change for the better.

Victims getting drawn back into a relationship with a psychopath is very common – do not be ashamed if it happens to you.

Resources Mentioned:
DSM – Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders
RAD – Reactive Attachment Disorder
Hare.org – Dr. Robert Hare’s website where you can find more information about Youth Checklist

Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews by Dianne Emerson
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Credits

– Podcast Production and Editing Service rendered by Daniel Roth
– Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives

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#16917 - 05/30/17 05:58 PM 006 - Dianne Offers Advice to a Woman who Married [Re: Dianne E.]
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Episode 006 - Dianne Offers Advice to a Woman who Married 2 Psychopaths
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Summary:
In Episode 006, Dianne shares a mail she received from a woman who has married 2 psychopaths. Listen as the writer shares and describes her life with husband #2 and opens up about her son. Dianne offers her sincerest advice and encouragement—reminding the writer and each of us that there IS hope and a way OUT of this life.

Time Stamped Show Notes:
00:06 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life
00:13 – Dianne is the author of the book, Psychopaths in Our Lives
00:26 – Dianne reads a letter she received last week
01:16 – The person who sent the letter married 2 psychopathic men
01:22 – Dianne has a relative who married 2 alcoholics
02:04 – “I have an older son who suffers from several disorders”
02:30 – People refer to psychopaths as men
02:41 – Dianne recommends reading Bitter Harvest
03:41 – “I cried buckets. It is so isolating”
04:14 – Dianne would like to answer you in this way:
05:00 – The answer won’t be in a pill – no antidepressants
05:16 – Realize you’ve gone through hell, but there IS a way out
06:30 – Think about trying to manage the feelings of being right
06:53 – Be careful about who you communicate with
07:27 – Never go to couples’ counseling
08:37 – Safety is very important
09:11 – Find an abuse center that is private or located in another town
09:54 – Your son may have gotten his disorder from his father’s genes
10:41 – Deal with one issue at a time
11:02 – Refrain from telling him you know
11:45 – Get in touch with Dianne on her website.
12:42 – Subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, YouTube, Facebook and on the website

3 Key Points:
Victims of psychopaths go through hell, BUT remember, there IS a way out.
Be careful with whom you communicate your plans and issues.
Your safety is the MOST important thing you need to consider.

Resources Mentioned:
Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews by Dianne Emerson
Bitter Harvest – Book about a psychopath woman
Biblio – Where Dianne gets her books

Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews by Dianne Emerson
Amazon
iBooks

Credits
Podcast Production and Editing Service rendered by Daniel Roth
Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives

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#16918 - 05/30/17 05:58 PM 007 - Psychopaths as Children [Re: Dianne E.]
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-Podcast Show Notes-
Episode 007 - Psychopaths as Children
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Summary:
In Episode 007, Dianne further discusses the characteristics of children displaying psychopathic tendencies; this includes certain traits and behaviors that are specific to children. Listen to find out why psychopathic symptoms go unnoticed in a household, the status for psychopathic care facilities today, and the reason why reporting can be complicated.

Time Stamped Show Notes:
00:12 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life
00:18 – Dianne is the author of the book, Psychopaths in Our Lives
01:05 – “We’re finally getting information coming out”
01:25 – The Atlantic Magazine has a great article, “When Your Child is a Psychopath”
02:12 – Dianne reads, “callous and unemotional traits—shorthand for a cluster of characteristics and behaviors, including a lack of empathy, remorse, or guilt, shallow emotions, aggression and even cruelty, and a seeming indifference to punishment.”
02:48 – Callous and unemotional children have no trouble hurting others to get what they want
02:58 – In 2013, The American Psychiatric Association and the DSM say that the condition can go unnoticed
04:12 – Dr. Hare developed the youth checklist for psychopathy behaviors
04:34 – What’s being done now is trial and error
04:46 – The flaw or lack is in developing places where kids can receive support/training for their behavior
05:46 – Once kids age out of a facility, there’s no follow-up
06:26 – Few families get to the point where they find care facilities
06:58 – In China, there are tons of facilities for gaming addictions
07:20 – Research and self-reporting are key issues
07:58 – Dianne shares about the Ted Bundy case
09:12 – The big trip up for Ted Bundy was pornography
09:45 – Ted had a girlfriend who stayed with him
10:23 – He was engaged a couple of times
10:37 – He had a pattern
10:58 – Reporting becomes complicated because you rely on the family to report it
11:57 – Psychopaths are not always men
12:57 – Men who are abused by women are off the radar
13:23 – For more information go to www.psychopath-research.com, in the “Family” section
13:54 – Register to be able to post
14:22 – A person on the site posts about his child who is under care in a facility
15:18 – Dianne cannot diagnose any person without meeting them
15:40 – Don’t mislabel people as psychopaths
16:37 – Dianne would like to share tools to do the research yourself
17:04 – Subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, YouTube, Facebook and on the website
17:16 – Get in touch with Dianne on her website

3 Key Points:
Psychopathic symptoms can go unnoticed – especially because you rely on family members to report such behaviors.
There are few care facilities for children who have the behavior—this needs to be rectified.
Don’t be mistaken, psychopaths are both men and women.

Resources Mentioned:
Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews
When Your Child is a Psychopath – Article from The Atlantic Magazine that Dianne mentioned
Dr. Hare – Doctor that developed the psychopathy checklist for youth
Ted Bundy – An infamous psychopath who went on a killing spree in the 1970’s

Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews by Dianne Emerson
Amazon
iBooks

Credits
Podcast Production and Editing Service rendered by Daniel Roth
Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives

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#16928 - 06/10/17 10:05 PM 008 - Motives of a Psychopath [Re: Dianne E.]
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Psychopath in Your Life

-Podcast Show Notes-

Episode 008
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Summary:

In Episode 008, Dianne dives further into the complexities that explain psychopaths become who they are. One’s background and childhood could account for part of this, but it isn’t a clear-cut cause and effect relationship for ALL psychopaths. Listen as Dianne shares more of her discoveries through the interviews she’s performed, why it’s important to show empathy to the parents of psychopaths, and how psychopaths can manipulate their diagnostic test results.

Time Stamped Show Notes:
00:11 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life
00:18 – Today’s episode is a follow up on the article: When Your Child is a Psychopath
00:49 – “If we don’t understand the past, we have no path forward to the future”
00:54 – Dianne received a disturbing email regarding blaming the parents
01:07 – We’re not blaming the parents
01:23 – Carl, the young man in the article went to a facility
01:37 – The big problem Dianne sees is there is no data for him beyond the age of 18
01:46 – Carl called the facility to report what he was doing
01:57 – The reporter paid a visit
02:06 – Interview with his family reveals that Carl is doing terrifically – better than expected
02:27 – Carl’s wife had a different story – it was a disastrous relationship
02:52 – The part that’s alarming is Carl now owns a funeral home
03:26 – We don’t have a way to know how psychopath genes get passed
03:57 – Dianne’s book contains 3 interviews with psychopaths
04:08 – One went through the diagnostic process of the psychopathic disorder
04:25 – Dianne’s question was, “How compliant were you?”
04:30 – The psychopath answered, “I was very tempted throughout this process to manipulate the results”
04:41 – Manipulation is always on a psychopath’s mind
05:06 – The goal is to get the victim to tell more about themselves and the psychopath to be the great listener
05:40 – Psychopaths seek out kind and caring people
06:17 – There’s a stronger possibility of using the card of the victim as a deflector
06:59 – Dianne has so much empathy towards parents
07:19 – Dianne shares a quote from a parent, “The #1 Reason is he’s my son and he’s incapable of returning that loving kind, #2: I
might have played a part in making him that way, #3: He’s my son and I love him, and #4: Is it in me too?”
07:58 – Verbalizing or writing it down makes it much more real to people
08:30 – There’s a certain clarity that happens in writing our thoughts
09:05 – Victims try to excuse bad behavior of psychopaths to try to deflect the pain they’ve gone through
09:42 – Pay attention and listen to your gut
10:04 – The next episode will be about the more specific signs to look for
10:11 – Get in touch with Dianne on her website.

3 Key Points:
There’s still no way to find out how psychopathic genes get passed – you just have to look for the symptoms.
It’s not cut and dry—the parents are not always to blame if a person becomes a psychopath.
Don’t paint the red flags white – listen to your gut.

Resources Mentioned:
Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews
When Your Child is a Psychopath – Article from The Atlantic Magazine that Dianne mentioned
Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews

Amazon
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Credits
Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives

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#16943 - 06/19/17 07:29 PM 009 - Side-Effects of Living with a Psychopath [Re: Dianne E.]
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Psychopath in Your Life

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Episode 009
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Summary:

In Episode 009, Dianne talks about the pain a psychopath’s victim often endures and how the after-effects can linger as PTSD, depression and/or anxiety. Psychopaths use gaslighting (a form of mental abuse) to trouble the minds of their victims and it’s very common to walk away from a relationship with a psychopath physically and mentally downtrodden. Listen as Dianne explains the detrimental effects of being a victim of a psychopath and offers encouragement to those experiencing such symptoms.

Time Stamped Show Notes:
00:11 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life
00:16 – Today’s episode is about physical and mental pains from the victims of psychopaths
00:45 – The comments range from exhaustion to anxiety
01:10 – Over the years, 99.9% of victims suffered from severe PTSD
01:36 – Dealing with a psychopath is a war between good and evil
01:59 – This episode is NOT a diagnosis
02:10 – Trauma from a psychopath is a real and painful event
02:28 – Traumas can complicate your ability to exit a situation and can cause healing issues
03:26 – PTSD happens over time
03:39 – People with PTSD are sincerely struggling
04:12 – “PTSD is an anxiety disorder that keeps a person preoccupied with both the past and the future, flashbacks, intrusive thoughts, or events”
04:45 – People with PTSD can continue to be depressed for months or even years
05:11 – The mind creates circular patterns
05:15 – One can be repeatedly thinking about the trauma
05:19 – One can be constantly on guard
05:21 – One with PTSD may try to avoid reminders of the trauma
05:34 – Can get panic attacks
05:49 – People with PTSD are also prone to autoimmune disorders and chronic pains
05:57 – There’s a great feeling of mistrust
06:38 – “Depression – persistent sad, anxious, or empty mood; loss of interest in once-enjoyed activities; feelings of guilt, shame, or hopelessness about the future; other symptoms of depression may also develop”
07:07 – People with PTSD can have a hard time recognizing themselves
07:33 – “Gaslighting is a form of mental abuse in which information is twisted or spun, selectively omitted to favor the abuser, or false information is presented with the intent of making victims doubt their own memory, perception, and sanity”
08:03 – Dianne shares an example from her book, Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews
09:29 – A victim’s health and mental being are attacked by psychopaths
09:52 – Be kind to yourself!
10:38 – Please subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, Youtube, and on the website
10:53 – Get in touch with Dianne on her website.

3 Key Points:
Your traumatic experiences can lead to PTSD and can make the healing take longer.
PTSD is a real, sincere response to a traumatic event that can cause anxiety and depression.
Remember to be kind to yourself – it’s not your fault if you find yourself in this kind of situation.

Resources Mentioned:
Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews

Credits
Podcast Production and Editing Service rendered by Daniel Roth
Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives

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#16947 - 06/25/17 03:19 PM 010 – HOW PEOPLE GET INVOLVED WITH A PSYCHOPATH PA [Re: Dianne E.]
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Summary:
In Episode 010, Dianne talks about the initial interactions psychopaths have with their victims. Psychopaths are known to inflict pain and misery pm their on victims lives and then turn the situation around, by playing the victim themselves. Listen as Dianne shares what to look for and consider as red flags when it comes to interacting with a psychopath. Dianne’s hope is that if you can see the signs, you’ll be able to safeguard yourself from the pain that can come from a relationship with a psychopath.

Time Stamped Show Notes:
00:11 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life
00:19 – Dianne is the author of Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews
00:30 – Dianne appreciates all the emails that are coming in!
00:42 – Dianne reads a letter from a victim who realized she was the one always apologizing and trying to fix things
01:45 – Dianne is sorry for your pain
02:04 – The pain might have been the trigger to help you find some answers
02:16 – There’s always a beginning phase in a relationship
02:34 – “Someone has to know you to figure out how to get to you and abuse you”
03:06 – Not making room for the person to share what’s on their mind will make it hard for you to detect possible psychopaths
03:52 – Ask them open questions
04:04 – Psychopaths will leave all the talking to you
04:53 – Many times victims say the psychopath was someone they weren’t attracted to
05:26 – What is the key that draws victims in?
06:15 – Instead of looking into the issue, victims usually revert back to “the old times”
06:35 – Dianne was stunned by how calculated psychopaths are in reeling in their victims
07:04 – A psychopath literally lays a trap
07:15 – Over the years, Dianne has come to understand that their goal is to make the victim share openly and to for them to be the good listener; later on, they begin to victimize you
07:50 – Dianne struggled with the dynamics of what was really happening
08:26 – Dianne shares what one psychopath said
09:18 – Buy before you try
09:40 – The most disgusting answer Dianne received from a psychopath was, “I have found that if people don’t like who they are, then they let you treat them how you want because they think they don’t deserve better treatment”
09:59 – Information to a psychopath is like a script
11:13 – Dianne hopes that when you start to hear what psychopaths are actually thinking, you’ll be able to see how it’s not worth pursuing a relationship with one
11:23 – A psychopath said, “People trust me because they want to trust me”
12:15 – Get in touch with Dianne on her website.
12:31 – Please subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, Youtube, and on the website

3 Key Points:
1. If you already see red flags, don’t ignore our intuition and act!
2. Do not let psychopaths or any other people mistreat you – you DO deserve better.
3. Be cautious before putting your trust in new people that you meet.


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Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews by Dianne Emerson
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Get In Touch
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Forum
Contact
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Subscribe to the show:
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Credits
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Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives


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#16948 - 06/27/17 05:13 PM 011 – How People Get Involved with a Psychopath Pa [Re: Dianne E.]
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Psychopath in Your Life

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Episode 011
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Summary:

In Episode 011, Dianne helps us explore how psychopaths gather information from their victims. When someone takes an interest in your life and in who you are, it’s usually a flattering experience. However, with psychopaths, they are displaying an interest to extract the “keys to the safe”. Tune in to find out how psychopaths gather information about their future victim by offering a kind, listening ear. they’d use that information against you. Listen as Dianne shares direct quotes from psychopaths and explains how a psychopath victimizes you within their first conversation.

Time Stamped Show Notes:
00:13 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life
00:22 – Dianne is the author of Psychopaths in Our Lives
00:55 – The purpose of this podcast is to chat about psychopaths
01:29 – Today, we’ll explore further how people get involved with psychopaths
01:52 – Many victims brush off their first instincts
02:05 – Psychopaths are good at operating under your instincts
02:46 – When you first meet a psychopath, they’re in the “gathering stage”
03:05 – It’s a process
03:21 – Psychopaths need to get you to participate
03:43 – Even psychopaths are surprised at how much people tell them
04:09 – Dianne reads a quote from a psychopath
04:50 – Sharing things is a critical part of the bonding
05:28 – “Buy before you try”
05:32 – As a good listener and extractor of critical information, psychopaths will be in agreement with whatever the victim has to say
06:08 – “Psychopaths display an interest”
06:29 – It’s easy to start responding because of their taking an interest in you
06:44 – Psychopaths display understanding, empathy, and confidence
08:06 – “They know they’re playing you, but they aren’t really clear why”
09:11 – Dianne paraphrases a psychopath’s view on the gathering stage, “If I don’t show an interest and ask the right questions, how will I ever figure out the keys to the safe?”
09:27 – It shows how tactical psychopaths are from the first time they talk to their victims
09:57 – Get in touch with Dianne on her website.
10:38 – Please subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, Youtube, and on the website

3 Key Points:
Learn to trust your instincts—they are there for a reason.
Be cautious about who you share your life details with and ask why this person is taking an interest in you.
Change begins one step at a time.

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Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews by Dianne Emerson
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