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#16947 - 06/25/17 03:19 PM 010 – HOW PEOPLE GET INVOLVED WITH A PSYCHOPATH PA [Re: Dianne E.]
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Summary:
In Episode 010, Dianne talks about the initial interactions psychopaths have with their victims. Psychopaths are known to inflict pain and misery pm their on victims lives and then turn the situation around, by playing the victim themselves. Listen as Dianne shares what to look for and consider as red flags when it comes to interacting with a psychopath. Dianne’s hope is that if you can see the signs, you’ll be able to safeguard yourself from the pain that can come from a relationship with a psychopath.

Time Stamped Show Notes:
00:11 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life
00:19 – Dianne is the author of Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews
00:30 – Dianne appreciates all the emails that are coming in!
00:42 – Dianne reads a letter from a victim who realized she was the one always apologizing and trying to fix things
01:45 – Dianne is sorry for your pain
02:04 – The pain might have been the trigger to help you find some answers
02:16 – There’s always a beginning phase in a relationship
02:34 – “Someone has to know you to figure out how to get to you and abuse you”
03:06 – Not making room for the person to share what’s on their mind will make it hard for you to detect possible psychopaths
03:52 – Ask them open questions
04:04 – Psychopaths will leave all the talking to you
04:53 – Many times victims say the psychopath was someone they weren’t attracted to
05:26 – What is the key that draws victims in?
06:15 – Instead of looking into the issue, victims usually revert back to “the old times”
06:35 – Dianne was stunned by how calculated psychopaths are in reeling in their victims
07:04 – A psychopath literally lays a trap
07:15 – Over the years, Dianne has come to understand that their goal is to make the victim share openly and to for them to be the good listener; later on, they begin to victimize you
07:50 – Dianne struggled with the dynamics of what was really happening
08:26 – Dianne shares what one psychopath said
09:18 – Buy before you try
09:40 – The most disgusting answer Dianne received from a psychopath was, “I have found that if people don’t like who they are, then they let you treat them how you want because they think they don’t deserve better treatment”
09:59 – Information to a psychopath is like a script
11:13 – Dianne hopes that when you start to hear what psychopaths are actually thinking, you’ll be able to see how it’s not worth pursuing a relationship with one
11:23 – A psychopath said, “People trust me because they want to trust me”
12:15 – Get in touch with Dianne on her website.
12:31 – Please subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, Youtube, and on the website

3 Key Points:
1. If you already see red flags, don’t ignore our intuition and act!
2. Do not let psychopaths or any other people mistreat you – you DO deserve better.
3. Be cautious before putting your trust in new people that you meet.


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#16948 - 06/27/17 05:13 PM 011 – How People Get Involved with a Psychopath Pa [Re: Dianne E.]
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Psychopath in Your Life

-Podcast Show Notes-

Episode 011
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Summary:

In Episode 011, Dianne helps us explore how psychopaths gather information from their victims. When someone takes an interest in your life and in who you are, it’s usually a flattering experience. However, with psychopaths, they are displaying an interest to extract the “keys to the safe”. Tune in to find out how psychopaths gather information about their future victim by offering a kind, listening ear. they’d use that information against you. Listen as Dianne shares direct quotes from psychopaths and explains how a psychopath victimizes you within their first conversation.

Time Stamped Show Notes:
00:13 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life
00:22 – Dianne is the author of Psychopaths in Our Lives
00:55 – The purpose of this podcast is to chat about psychopaths
01:29 – Today, we’ll explore further how people get involved with psychopaths
01:52 – Many victims brush off their first instincts
02:05 – Psychopaths are good at operating under your instincts
02:46 – When you first meet a psychopath, they’re in the “gathering stage”
03:05 – It’s a process
03:21 – Psychopaths need to get you to participate
03:43 – Even psychopaths are surprised at how much people tell them
04:09 – Dianne reads a quote from a psychopath
04:50 – Sharing things is a critical part of the bonding
05:28 – “Buy before you try”
05:32 – As a good listener and extractor of critical information, psychopaths will be in agreement with whatever the victim has to say
06:08 – “Psychopaths display an interest”
06:29 – It’s easy to start responding because of their taking an interest in you
06:44 – Psychopaths display understanding, empathy, and confidence
08:06 – “They know they’re playing you, but they aren’t really clear why”
09:11 – Dianne paraphrases a psychopath’s view on the gathering stage, “If I don’t show an interest and ask the right questions, how will I ever figure out the keys to the safe?”
09:27 – It shows how tactical psychopaths are from the first time they talk to their victims
09:57 – Get in touch with Dianne on her website.
10:38 – Please subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, Youtube, and on the website

3 Key Points:
Learn to trust your instincts—they are there for a reason.
Be cautious about who you share your life details with and ask why this person is taking an interest in you.
Change begins one step at a time.

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Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews by Dianne Emerson
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#16952 - 07/04/17 09:22 AM 012 - Gaslighting and Psychopaths [Re: Dianne E.]
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-Podcast Show Notes-

Episode 012

Summary:

In Episode 012, Dianne talks about how psychopath harm the victims by the of use Gaslighting (a form of mental abuse). The word Gaslighting was first used in a play in the 1938 version. A movie about Gaslighting was released in 1945. The term Gaslighting comes from the psychopath flickering the lights and dimming the lights used at that time.

Gaslighting starts out very slowly and increases over time. The end goal is to get the victim to start to question their sanity. Typically victims start to believe they are in fact crazy because the Gaslighting is so hard to detect.

Psychopaths were interviewed in Dianne’s book about Gaslighting. Dianne shares an example from her book, Psychopaths in Our Lives Much to the surprise the psychopaths had never heard the term but considered it a key element in how they abuse victims. Gaslighting will be discussed further in the next podcast. Please subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, Youtube, and on the website. You can get in touch with Dianne on her website or by email.



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Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews by Dianne Emerson
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#16954 - 07/12/17 08:37 PM 013 - Gaslighting and Psychopaths Part 2 [Re: Dianne E.]
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Psychopath in Your Life

-Podcast Show Notes-

Episode 13

Summary:
Dianne today continues to describe what victims go through with Gaslighting. It is a key element used by psychopaths.
Victims of psychopaths either in the workplace, at home or in relationships find that they get the feeling they are being done is making them feel crazy.

Key Points:
Gaslighting usually happens gradually in a relationship
It can happen with your boss, a parent or friends, or romantic relationships.
Gaslighting is to decrease someone’s self-esteem and self-confidence
Psychopaths who gaslight you will systematically and frequently withhold information and then deliberately alter facts to disorientate their victim.
If the psychopath in your life is making you feel crazy — and accusing you of being too sensitive to make the "crazy" label stick — the problem might not be all in your head.
Psychopaths were interviewed in Dianne’s book about Gaslighting. Please subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, Youtube, and on the website. You can get in touch with Dianne on her website or by email.

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Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews by Dianne Emerson
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#16959 - 07/17/17 09:19 PM Re: Podcast - Psychopath In Your Life now live*** [Re: Dianne E.]
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Psychopath in Your Life
-Podcast Show Notes-

Episode 014

Summary:

Dianne today continues to describe what victims go through with Gaslighting. It is a key element used by psychopaths. Victims of psychopaths either in the workplace, at home or in relationships find that they get the feeling they are being done is making them feel crazy.

Key Points:

Gaslighting usually happens gradually in a relationship
It can happen with your boss, a parent or friends, or romantic relationships.
Gaslighting is to decrease someone’s self-esteem and self-confidence
Psychopaths who gaslight you will systematically and frequently withhold information and then deliberately alter facts to disorientate their victim.
If the psychopath in your life is making you feel crazy — and accusing you of being too sensitive to make the "crazy" label stick — the problem might not be all in your head.
Psychopaths were interviewed in Dianne’s book about Gaslighting. Please subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, Youtube, and on the website. You can get in touch with Dianne on her website or by email.

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Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews by Dianne Emerson
Amazon
iBooks

Get In Touch
Website
Forum - Psychopath Victim Support Website
Contact
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Subscribe to the show:
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Credits
Podcast Production and Editing Service rendered by Daniel Roth

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