Great attitude and perspective.
I'm realizing that I have let him dictate my moods too often. So often I get a call of his incidents or hear him trying to manipulate me or his latest therapist on the phone and it will set me off into obsessing about his behavior, overeating, getting depressed, whatever. Realizing I cannot control him and he is going to do what he always does helps me to just resolve what it is and move on. You are right, he doesn't even diverse my thoughts or concern. Last week I went on a vacation and purposely decided not to call him or even think about him. It was great. We did have a conference call on the drive up, but we just talked about it briefly and let it go, even though we knew he was using it to manipulate again.