What is a Psychopath?"Psychopaths are social predators who charm, manipulate and ruthlessly plow their way through life, leaving a broad trail of broken hearts, shattered expectations without the slightest sense of guilt or regret. Their bewildered victims desperately ask, 'Who are these people?'"
We often think of psychopaths as the disturbed criminals who capture headlines and crowd the nation's prisons. But not all psychopaths are killers. They are more likely to be men and women you know who move through life with supreme self-confidence -- but without a conscience.
"What makes them the way they are? How can we protect ourselves?"
Robert D Hare, "Without Conscience"
Without Conscience: The Disturbing World of Psychopaths Among Us
Robert Hare, in his 1993 book says: "Psychopaths are social predators who charm, manipulate, and ruthlessly plow their way through life, leaving a broad trail of broken hearts, shattered expectations, and empty wallets."
"Completely lacking in conscience and feelings for others, they selfishly take what they want and do as they please, violating social norms and expectations without the slightest sense of guilt or regret."
"He will choose you, disarm you with his words, and control you with this presence. He will delight you with his wit and his plans. He will show you a good time, but you will always get the bill. He will smile and deceive you, and he will scare you with his eyes. And when he is through with you, and he will be through with you, he will desert you and take with him your innocence and your pride. You will be left much sadder but not a lot wiser, and for a long time you will wonder what happened and what you did wrong. And if another of his kind comes knocking at your door, will you open it?"
Web Site of Dr. Hare Terminology:
In order to keep all of us on the same page we would like to point out that for purposes of discussion the term used here at this forum is Psychopath, not socio-path. we respect the work of Dr. Hare and feel that he has worked tirelessly to communicate the proper terminology according to his many years of research. I know the term psychopath gets people thinking it only applies to the Bundy's of the world. What we are discussing here are those Psychopaths who are walking amongst us.
The nomenclature problem is a pit of vipers. There seems to be no standard usage. Research psychologists and those involved in the correctional system seem to prefer the Hare construct of 'Psychopath'. Psychiatrists seem more likely to refer to the ASPD definition in DSM-IV-TR
Here's what Hervey Cleckley has to say in the Preface to the 5th Edition of "The Mask of Sanity"
"Since the first edition of this book, revisions of the nomenclature have been made by the American Psychiatric Association. The classification of psychopathic personality was changed to that of sociopathic personality in 1958. In 1968 it was changed again to antisocial personality. Like most psychiatrists I continue to think of the people who are the subject of this book as psychopaths and will most often refer to them by this familiar term