Jan,

You could be right with the inheritance part, his dad owns a considerable amount of properties and also, it's his dad who handles his business here, since Psychopath is living in overseas right now. I guess you are right with the warning from the ex, but what do you read from what she said about him? all his lies and deception and his disregard for our hurt feelings. He got the following characteristics:
superficial charm
self-centered & self-important
need for stimulation & prone to boredom
deceptive behavior & lying
conning & manipulative
little remorse or guilt
shallow emotional response
callous with a lack of empathy
living off others or predatory attitude
promiscuous sexual behavior
lack of realistic long term goals
irresponsible behavior
blaming others for their actions
short term relationships
What i noticed about him was his extreme calmness, his passive emotions, I thought this was because he's a doctor that he trained himself to be not emotional, he's also a military officer..do you think his training has something to do with how he can control his emotions? if he is not a psychopath, what if he might just need a lot of understanding. It also came to my mind to just think of him as a stepping stone out of my old relationship, but if he's not a psychopath, what will it make me, a user?

I really appreciate your help in talking this out. Thanks.