Yeah Kris,

My boy also has a small cottage out in the sticks. And what you describe is exactly what I expect to see when I next have the privilege of visiting. I was there two days after he moved in. He lives on out of date food from his convenience store (free you see)- or he did rather- and the bun wrappers and pizza plates were already in evidence. The local cockroaches will be flocking by for house parties.

He was brought up enjoying his daily shower and his fresh clothing. And his mother ain't depressed at all. As a matter of fact she scorns such conditions. I know that because she assured me (and my daughter) that I myself was a manic depressive- after I left of course- I mean, I didn't know what it meant at all and as far as I was concerned she could blather away. Cheeky sow would be my response now that I do know.

Regards

I love yall...Everybody that has something to say, has done so much to really help me come to terms with this embarassing episode in my life.

I want to describe my Psychopath: very handsome, Obsessive about his image, neat to a fault, organized...He wouls ak me for any old phone books I had and then he would spend hours cutting out names of buisnesses with an exacto knife, he made lists upon list of everything, kept binders of his phone book scraps, never slept that much, took a drug called ambitriptolene...he said he could never turn his mind off, lied about stupid stuff, refused to share anything about his past, he would be furious if I asked too many questions, but then he would pet me and say "dont worry sweetheart, I will be here to protect you", He looked like a minister but he didnt know where scripture was in the Bible at all.
He was doing credit card fraud and I found him out, he would leave town for days at a time to do "buisness". Shower me with affection and gifts becaus ehe felt sorry for me. Stalk me, watch me sleep, insist on having sex up to ten times a day. Addicted to porn...the list goes on, but what I am trying to say is that they do sooooooooo many wierd things its hard to remember them all.
If anybody has an answer to the list thing...what thats all about please speak up. When I say lists I mean everything on index cards EVERYTHING