Hi Murray, no I am just guessing but I don't think they see what we see. I am guessing that anyone who thinks like they are the victim and have no conscience would see things through a different set of lenses. After all it is all about them. I think when they "unmask" is when the eyes are terrible black holes, I am wondering if they are "unmasking" during sex? Most if not all have described the dark holes and described it as looking into the eyes of the devil. I have only seen a couple during my daily wanderings with those evil eyes.

Di

Di~

It does look like black holes and I could see how someone might say a black well also for the fact that if you look down at the bottom of an actual well [that's what I see--looks like black mercury wiggling around in the center of their eyes]. A black hole eye looks different than black well eyes. I've seen them have both at different times. That is what the retina looks like. They have these eyes during sex. Their eyes also look bright. Like they glow.

I won't let anyone fix my car who has eyes like anything I just described.
Have a nice day.
Murray

Di~

Sorry if I get off topic. I have attention issues.

From my own personal experience [ex husband is psychopathic] a psychopaths eyes during sex are bright and the retina looks like liquid mercury (a black well not a black hole). It is also not like their eyes are wide open during sex either, they are slightly open.

As I stated previously, a black well and a black hole look different. I have seen psychopaths have both...only a black well during sex [the rest of the eye is very bright].

They do unmask during sex.

If you don't a conscience you are evil. How can you repent if you lack empathy...you can't.

I see these eyes a lot. On people I don't know personally. It is scary.

Murray

Hi Murray, I know what you mean, I saw those black eyes when I passed a man along a not well traveled road hitting his dog, I came just a few feet from him and coulnd't stop to help the dog. When I reported him the animal control guy mentioned the eyes also. It stops you in your steps that is for sure.

Di

Di~

That's interesting that the animal control guy mentioned the eyes to you. People in those positions must come in contact w/psychopaths quite often---like social workers as well.

Murray

WOW. Crude, yes, but TRUE. That's just how it felt. He manipulated me for HIS pleasure, not mine.

Thanks for putting it in a nutshell.

I agree - TARGET is a better word.

On My Own Again~

I agree too. We are targets. It is a better word.

Sex w/a psychopath hasn't always been bad at all. They are selfish. My favorite painting is the Harlequin by Cezanne. Sometimes the people in my family had eyes that were completely black.

Sorry,....what a strange question is this???
If you are asking bout psychopaths and agressive sex..directly, maybe you could consider people being not up to answering a question like that?
Have you got any idea what kidn of feelings are involved and how much the damage is these people suffer?
Sorry this is simply too insensetive for words!!

In my country I have several forums..one of them about incest and sexual abuse...If any one would ask a question like this on my forum I would know what to do......