Hello

I haven´t been posting for a long time, but now I have an urgent question.

Recently I found out that my Psychopath is seeing another woman. At first I was relieved because, now he is off my back!

But then I started wondering about the new woman, there was a picture of her in the newspaper article related to storm damage and selling her house, she doesn´t look at all well. The article also mentioned that her boyfriend is helping her, and guess who that is!

Psychopath really likes to see his name in the newspaper and I have been able to follow his scemes, all of which have failed.

Knowing how puzzled I was about his behaviour, and how much I wished for somebody to talk to, I really feel that I should warn the woman about this guy. But I am also afraid of what he might do if he finds out that I have contacted her. I am worried about my family, and don´t want him ever to come near them or me.

What do you think, is there anything I can do?

Ekko

Hi Ekko,

My vote is, no. Put it out of your mind. Find that newspaper and burn it, then forget you ever saw it.

Any attempt you make to reach out and warn this stranger will likely be rejected and only bring your tormenter nearer to you.

That's just my initial reaction.

Best Wishes,
denfox

Thank you Denfox

That is what my intinct says too.

But I do not want anybody to go through what I have been through. I still think about Psychopath and wonder what happened to me. Who was the crazy one? Who is the crazy one now?

When things get really bad, I read on this site and think about the day he told that he had been invited to lunch with the queen. I asked him some questions about the meny and the clothes he had been wearing, he lied with a straight face and sounded very convincing, thats when I knew I had to get out.

Ekko

Hi Ekko, I agree with DenFox, think of it as a snake traveling away from you down the road, you wouldn't want to attract it's attention to come back at you.

Besides, if she is under his spell it is unlikely she will believe you and very highly possible she will tell him about your contact. I have heard of victims being in contact but that was after it was over.

It must be hard to see the next victim but protecting yourself is the most important thing to think about, who knows if contacting her might trigger him and in what way it might bounce back on you.

Di

Hi Dianne

I am not going to contact her, but it is good to know that you feel the same way.

Ekko

Where is my psychopath now? He is in Jail

Well, he is in good company, too bad they can't all be locked up. If you don't mind, what is he in for?

Di

Mine is wanted in north American for three counts of premeditated murder they have a warrant out for his arrest but say he's very hard to catch and extremely violent and to not approach him. I hope I never run into him again I know if he ever saw me he wouldn't even bat and eyelash, his abuse would be instant. I still look over my shoulder when I travel alone...