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Psychopath In Your Life
Re: Fear of what he's capable to do by lanvin @ Today at 08:06 AM

Thank you for the replies Dianne and F Wright. I'm happy I can share these situations now. What intrigues me is that he hasn't tried to contact me for a year now, he's clearly over it, he has a new victim. It seems like he's doing this for his own
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Re: Fear of what he's capable to do by F Wright @ Yesterday at 12:04 PM

There is an old saying. It ends with "You can't fool all of the people all of the time." Narcissicm is often a trait of psycopathy. Narcissists are very protective over their victims and will go to great lengths to keep them within the web
Psychopath In The Family
Dianne and starry, once again, thank you so much. Now that the alcohol has worn off, well ... we are feeling a bit beat up. But we are a lot clearer, if sadder, about what we need to do and not do. I am very grateful to everyone who is a bit furthe
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Re: When was your lighbulb moment? by lanvin @ 02/02/12 08:05 PM

There were several redflags. But this flag was red, flashing and screaming WAKE UP. I had left work earlier and I thought to surprise him and have lunch together, so I drove to his work - he'd been working in a lawfirm as a lawer for 4 months. As
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Great for you blueheron, glad you had the margarita stop, lol. If they get themselves in deep enough and it sounds like they are heading into even deeper hot water, my first hunch is before long the clamp will come down and that is great news if the
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blueheron, I'm so impressed with how you're dealing with this. And how great that the attorney understood what was going on and gave you the advice he did. You've been in my thoughts the past couple of days.
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Hello, Dianne, we just got home from the attorney (estate attorney). Well, granted, we stopped on the way home for a margarita and some guacamole because we were strung tighter than a cheap violin. We never drink, so one drink did a nice buzz job. O
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Re: Fear of what he's capable to do by Dianne E. @ 02/02/12 01:39 PM

Hi Lanvin, please, you are far from being retarded, thankfully you got away from him. It is impossible to defend the indefensible when they spread lies about you, it happened to me and about ruined my life when everyone believed the horrific lies.
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Hey blueheron, what happened with the attorney, what kind of attorney did you see? I hope it was a wake up call for your husband, if he thinks his stomach hurts now that is child's play if he gets you both under the hot lights of these criminal acti
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Fear of what he's capable to do by lanvin @ 02/02/12 12:23 PM

Hey guys, I'm new here. It's been two years since I broke up with my psychopath boyfriend. We were together for 3 years, and with time it became obvious he was a compulsive liar. I found out he had a 4-year-old daughter, the office where he "w
What about the children of Psychopaths?
Jump to new posts Re: When a parent is a Psychopath by Dianne E. @ 02/01/12 09:50 PM

Hi planetchildren, I am trying to email you and it keeps getting bounced, when you get a chance if you wouldn't mind sending me an email. dianne77@msn.com Thanks much, Di
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Smeralda, welcome to the forum. I just wanted to say that everything you mentioned took place in my relationship with a Psychopath. What you described here is typical of them. Which gives you two very important information - yes, there are SUCH peo
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Dianne, starry, you are both amazing and spot on. Thank you so much for taking time to read and write a reply. This whole situation is getting scary. I am trying really hard not to escalate myself into full-blown paranoia, but they are so unpredictab
Social Networking - is it safe?
Jump to new posts Re: Facebook by Dianne E. @ 01/31/12 12:36 PM

This is an interesting view about Facebook and how it operates, I don't think hiding things will work, once they have your information it is fair game. Excerpt: Here’s an interesting coincidence. Last week, the European commission announced plans f
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Greetings, Smerelda. Welcome to the forum. From what you describe this man appears to have issues. I'm not qualified to diagnose anyone but I think it's safe to say you probably should retain the services of an attorney who has experience in family
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blueheron, I absolutely agree with Di on this. I've had a think about it too, and it worries me. To me it seems like he's still 'caught' by them. As Di says, he's putting himself in a dangerous position in even just going round and listening to wha
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Good for you, blueheron. Trust me the system is set up to find fraud. Anything in safe deposit boxes etc. they will track down. We all know they will just scr*w you in the end if the going gets tough and it will. I would never be go along with tha
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Something new every day. The Psychopaths next door have gotten desperate. A couple of months before my husband's father died, the two Psychopaths went and changed ownership of everything Dad owned out of his name and into theirs. They took as much
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Is he just a bad person or something much worse? by Smeralda @ 01/30/12 06:20 PM

Hello, I am new here and I am trying to make sense of my situation right now - it's quite painful to realise that I have fallen for someone who has over a period of 7 years slowly chipped away at my self belief and self confidence. I am here to get s
Social Networking - is it safe?
Jump to new posts Re: General Computer Tips by Dianne E. @ 01/30/12 01:32 PM

I have it on my Firefox icon to browse privately although I don't usually use it because Ghostery blocks them. I LOVE Firefox, don't know how it escaped me all these years. I have the add on Ghostery that shows as a tiny blue thing at the top of my
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Jump to new posts Re: General Computer Tips by blueheron @ 01/29/12 10:42 PM

Someone clued me in to a secure, private search engine: https://startpage.com I use it on Firefox. It works well, but it doesn't come up with suggestions like google does.
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So glad I could give you a laugh. We are still chuckling over it.
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Re: Do Psychopaths feel FEAR? by blueheron @ 01/29/12 10:28 PM

Originally Posted By: marindeThere's just one thing I can't understand. It feels like he is ruled by some weird primal fear (?) of losing control. He is paranoid and always expecting others to be hostile. I've seen him nervous, intimidated by some me
Depression and healing
Jump to new posts Re: Could do with some help. by Dianne E. @ 01/28/12 10:07 PM

Starry, you constantly amaze me with your progress. I know there are so many benefits we can get from exercise but hard to do even though in the end it will make us feel better. Keep us posted on how it is going. I am going through a major change