NoONe

I would think that this would be a pattern of harassment, certainly based on your history with her. I too would be concerned about her silence. It’s difficult to tell if she’s moved on or is quietly planning something. My husband does not try to contact me directly, unless there is something he wants from me ( ie; sign the taxes). But I do feel that he might have others who are watching/following me on occasion. Your ”Psychopath” seemed to be a more vocal and active aggravator so perhaps you will be fortunate and she will have found a new victim.

I sense things are not quite right. Older daughter has been in touch daily and being very loving. Long mails about everything. Younger daughter asked me to buy her a ticket to come and see me as soon as school is over. I bought her the ticket and now I want to see if she manages to fly. This is all very strange and as long as they dont tell me what is going on with 'dear' psychopath I am not going to ask either. Maybe psyhcopaths do redeem themselves. Maye she just moved on (hopefully) to another victim. At my end of things I have been feeling much better. I am drinking much less, not smoking, and sleeping better. I suspect that writing my story here has helped me somehow. My big project of late is coming to a conclusion and Spring is in the air. Too good to be true. She (or any one from her quarters) can still pop up at any time. I think that fear will stay with me for a long time.

NoOne,

When you say that things aren't right...I would say trust your instincts. By ignoring the RED FLAGS that our subconscious tried alerting us with before, we got into a whole lot of trouble. Trust yourself now. If this behavior is unusual for your daughters, use caution. I had a similar issue with my youngest son questioning me daily as to where I was , where was I staying the night...(at the time I was couch surfing among family members). I later found out he was passing information on to the "Psychopath", innocently or not. But because I instantly became alarmed at his questioning, I was vague. I think my instincts have kept me safe up to this point.

No, I do not think your "Psychopath" has redeemed herself...sorry I don't think they change unless they want/can get something from you.

Stay safe- trust yourself.

Psychopaths do not redeem themselves. I think we all know this but we hold on to the thread that maybe the one in our lives can beat the odds... but realistically they can't.

Like 1962 says, be careful.

Something is not right I just dont know what. Hard for me to believe that she finally gave up. But on the other hand maybe she did redeem herself and moved on. For now I will just keep as low profile as possible. Funny to think for years I sought to get to the point of getting rid of her and now that I finally got it (hopefully) I fear her silence and absence.

My daughter already got the ticket I bought for her and printed the boarding pass. She wrote me that she has the passport and got it all planned up this time. I truly worry how innocent she is (she is only sixteen) but she says that she will make it this time. It will unfold soon after the last day of classes. Still a long way. There is nothing I can do but wait. Very courageous of her but realistically speaking I wonder how she will manage to cross the customs/passport check up line. She says that she got it out figured out but wont tell me how.

NoOne,

Was your location previously a secret? I recall your previous concern over your wife possibly sending someone to hurt you. Does the 16 year old have any tendencies like her mother?

My location is not a secret but due to its isolation setting it will not be easy for a stanger to come here unnoticed. The daughter is troubled and does exhibit some of mom's behavior. When angry she also goes in rampages smashing everything. She is having problems in school and with the law. I have told her to get away before she goes nuts. She tried before to get away but the mother sabotage it. This time she wrote me to have it all figured out and only needed the ticket. I dont know what are her plans. She says that she cant tell me. Most likely afraid that I will panic or that mom will find out. I sense that she doesnt want me to know so I will not be blamed for anything should something go wrong. I know she is having terrible conflicts with the mother. At times even fist fightings. Again, there is nothing I can do. I am powerless. I am many time zones away and even if I was close anything I would do would only make things worst. It was always like that.

The 'dear' knows I am well protected here and that it will not be easy to touch me but I also know that she can go out of orbit and act in irrational and instinctual way. When there was some sort of communication she threatened me many times to hire a hit man to come and get me. I didnt pay attention to it because I was use to hear such threats for many years. But I worry because she has lost all hopes to get me and may now turn to extreme situations. I hope not. Most likely I am only paranoia.

NoOne,

Although many of us have probably been called paranoid, I think that it just makes sense to do everything in our power to keep ourselves safe.

Good luck in the situation with your daughter. I hope that her Mother isn't using her to get to you in some way. It seems like you'll have your hands full if daughter has "Psychopath" tendencies.

Oh yes, she has already used the kids against me. She forbade them to communicate with me. They do but not from home computers. They find other computers and have secret mail boxes. They are afraid so they keep it as a secret. My daughter assured me that she got it rigth this time but cant tell me what his her plan. She already got the ticket I bought her. I worry how she will clear up customs and passport check up.

I often think how one can have so much hatred, generate so much evil and cause so much pain without any remorse or even conscience of what they are doing. Not only. But also at the same act out as victims and defenders of higher morals and have the courage to go to church religiously. I dont know about your 'favorite' psychopath but this one I know is just not human. I dont know what she is but human she is not. Maybe an alien from a psychopath planet who doesnt have blood in its system. Maybe it is Coca-Cola, I dont know.