I am working with a female attorney who really gets it. She has a team of people who do collaborative law and they are looking to work out an agreement with my "narcissistic" psychopath. Basically, they are trying to not trigger any further violence ( if that is possible, I don't know)

Saw my attorney today and she is thinking of trying collaborative law. Make him feel that he is part of the solution rather than having something done to him- does anyone have any experience with this and if so did it help or not?